Life Art - On Partnership
Friends - Gays - Lesbians.
How's that? What a topic?? Monsieur, monsieur - mon dieu!!
How comes I picked this topic?? Well, it's easy: I call some lesbian couple(s) my best friends.
And what is my attitude??
Frankly, I must say I can't imagine living and having a sexual life with a male partner. But (there's always a butt, ya know), but: if this person had a female-like body, ie not too much hair, not too many muscles, soft skin, nice long calves etc, there MIGHT be a chance... but not an actual desire.
When I was in my teens, I felt strongly attracted to other beautiful-looking male mates, I remember yearning strongly for one or two of them. I even dreamt of them, had sexual imaginations, and so on. But today, that's all gone, I'm definitely a hetero. When you're young, you're finding out your way how to live on this planet, and that includes exploring persons of the same sex.
It's different when it comes to lesbians. When I was in London a while ago, I came across a bookshop for gays, I went in and had a look, nosey me.
I found some books about lesbians, in fact I only was looking for them, not for gays, or homos. And I saw very beautiful photos of loving couples, and wonderful stories about their lives and togetherness.
I need to say again, I don't condemn the male equivalent, the thing is that I just don't feel attracted by them.
Ok, only recently I've found my new (lesbian) friends on a photo-sharing site, and, apart from the beginning, to me there's nothing special about it, as far as having contact with them is concerned, (well, it is special of course, but I wanted to point out that the lesbian issue isn't showing up all the time. And these friends are special: they are extremely cute!)
In a nutshell, we live (and have always been living) in a changing world, a world of more openness. It's more and more commonly accepted that there's more than just one traditional way of living.
I might perhaps further elaborate my thoughts in a future post; I just wanted to jot down my thoughts right here, as long as they are still in process and fresh.
Feel free to send your comments.
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